FOCUS ON BULLYING: Department of Education takes action
The Department for Basic Education is focusing on bullying and the effects thereof.
Cyber-bullying, happens when teens use the Internet, cellphones, or other devices to send or post text or images intended to hurt, intimidate or embarrass another person.
Cyber-bullies use voice messages, e-mail, text messages, photo images, videos or websites to repeatedly harass, intimidate or embarrass another person or group of people.
Whether you have been the victim of cyber-bullying, know someone who has been cyber-bullied or have even cyber-bullied yourself, there are steps you and your friends can take to prevent cyber-bullying and stay safe.
Since most cyber-bullying takes place at home, it is important that parents know about cyber-bullying and that they get involved in preventing it. Just like parents help their kids avoid inappropriate websites, they can protect them from cyber-bullying.
To be a victim of cyber-bullying can be a painful experience and can happen in this way:
* Bullies pretend they are other people online to trick the victim.
* They spread lies and rumours.
* They trick people into revealing personal information.
* They send or forward mean text messages.
* They post pictures of victims without their consent.
Many children experience a variety of emotions when they are cyber-bullied. They normally experience feelings of hurt, anger, embarrassment, tension or anxiety. These emotions can cause victims to react in ways such as:
* Seeking revenge on the bully.
* Avoiding friends and activities.
*Cyber-bullying back.
Some teens feel threatened because they may not know who is cyber-bullying them. Although cyber-bullies may think they are anonymous, they can be found.
If you are cyber-bullied or harassed and need help, save all communication from the bully and talk to a parent, teacher, police officer or other adult you trust.
Remember that the Internet is accessed by millions of people, all over the world, not just you and your friends and family.
While many Internet users are friendly, some may want to hurt you.
Below are some ways to stay cyber-safe:
* Never post or share your personal information online.
* Never share your Internet passwords with anyone, except your parents.
* Never meet anyone face-to-face whom you only know online.
* Talk to your parents about what you do online.
Information courtesy of the Department of Basic Education.
